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如何评价福州外籍留学生违规载人又打骂交警暴力抗法,结果仅为带回学校加强教育一事?这一处理有何依据? 第1页

     

user avatar   sang-xin-bing-kuang-li-you-cai 网友的相关建议: 
      

福州公安想一想,为什么全网都在骂你们,你们委屈吗?

一点不委屈!

一骂你们执法不严,面对袭警行为,当事民警一不敢喝止,二不敢采取强制措施,任由打骂推搡,最后落荒而逃。恶心!全国警察的脸让你丢光了!

二骂你们执法不公,中国人骂警察,你们果断拘留,外国人打警察,你们批评教育,这种选择性执法,让人如何信服?

这是什么年代了?大清还没亡吗,外国人还在中国的土地上横行无忌吗?福州公安的领导,你们的腰什么时候能直起来?就你们这样的执法素质,这样的执法理念,全国人民骂你,你还觉得委屈吗?


有些人,跪久了,真的站不起来了!


user avatar   chen-guan-yu-5-2 网友的相关建议: 
      


先举报一手福州公安局


user avatar   lin-xiao-63-71 网友的相关建议: 
      

谢邀,所以我们就可以看出来,社会的各种导向和民风差异真的很大,

在蒙古国和哈萨克斯坦,白人连在夜店勾搭当地女性都不敢,

因为他们怕被打,所以只敢在宾馆里面用Tinder,

Sexpat有自己专门的网站 Roosh V Forum

他们在上面每去一个地方,会写很详细的「Report」,

来讨论一个地方的女人好不好勾搭,男人敢不敢跟你冲突。

他们是会详细讨论的!你敢不敢跟他们冲突,他们会把你看得一清二楚。

另外不得不说,即便是经常被讥讽为「殖民地」的台湾和日本,白人都不敢这么嚣张。


乌兰巴托报告:

1、There also is a major anti-foreigner thing there, so you have to watch your back especially if you are white. Go google about it before you go. You don't want to fuck around with a Mongolian guy.

2、Ulan Bator is the only Asian city I'd consider moving to full time,great place,great women. Have to agree with nomadicdude about the men there,they can't handle their drink and when drunk they turn into violent dicks. Big powerful lumps they are too so you need to be careful at night.

3、Angry guys, indeed, one "taxi" driver was furious with me after I picked a girl to come to my hotel, overcharge me and was not far from hitting me. My advise also to avoid roaming in the night outside is to arrange for a reliable driver for your stay which will pick you up whenever you call him.

4、Problem with going to venues which do not cater for foreigners is exactly that anti-foreigner attitude, I went for one and was not successful at all, local guys will block you even if the girl is not related to them at all.

5、Yeah, Mongolian guys don't like to see foreigners with Mongolian girls. Three guys jumped me once when I was out with my Mongolia wife

6、just aggresive. They get drunk and like to fight. I'd see one fight every other day walking around at night

7、Any guy that walks around UB with a Mongolian girl is looking to get his ass kicked, very badly. They hate foreigners in general, but foreigners fucking their women even more. I'm with a Mongolian woman, and have a lot of Mongolian friends and I'm still very careful in UB.

8、In any case, making male Mongolian friends, or meeting girls in discrete locations (my hotel room) sounds like a necessity in central Asia... But not that much you can do really -- to get a flag you need to interact with Mongolian girls. Maybe I'll refrain from porking girls publicly.

9、There are several clubs that are frequented by foreigners, so you pretty much can go hang out there, I guess. There still might be some problems, but really, if it's a foreigner friendly place, the girls are hookers. (Of which there are a lot in Mongolia.) I'd be careful coming and going from the club, as alcohol is involved, and some drunk guys might just decide to jump a lone foreigner. I'm going to assume that you don't want to (just) bang hookers, though...

10、The best thing to do is counter that perception - build up your tolerance to vodka (no face-making, either), do whatever crazy shit they do and understand that there's worse ways to die than while doing something really fucking risky in Mongolia. That will earn their respect, if nothing else, and will increase your chances with their women. (Their women really care about masculinity. Perhaps a bit too much...

11、Your best chance with a Mongolian girl is when she's not around other Mongolians.

12、The kind of guy that's going to be visiting Mongolia (probably) is going to be sufficiently masculine (unless you're an auditor or something) to be attractive to a Mongolian girl, but if you're not really a take charge kind of guy, it will erode her respect for you in relatively short order and there can be problems.

13、Most of the Mongolian-White couples I've seen haven't held up because he "isn't strong enough" for her (and also, the guy was punching way above his weight in a fair fight on looks). What they perceive as "masculine" is a higher bar than what most of us would. The other issue is that most Mongolian women have zero interest in a career - virtually all want to be a stay at home mother. (Most women in Mongolia marry and have children in their early 20s.)

14、A lot of Mongolian guys aren't even really interested in their own women. (Ironic, given their Xenophobia.) The couple of Mongolian players I know are the only Asian guys that I know regularly date outside their race.

15、As a reputation, they are very high maintenance as girlfriends and the relationships don't work because they're incredibly demanding that you spend money on them (like a lot of Asian girls) and they're constantly insulting their boyfriend's manhood as a way of pushing buttons.

16、But, their materialism, hot tempers, and wildness rubs a lot of guys the wrong way eventually. You'll definitely need to be a party animal to keep up with most Mongolians and this will exhaust most western guys.

17、They also have a tendency to get fat. I've seen some skinny ones - like all Asians, a certain percentage of them is incapable of gaining any weight, but most tend to get chubby at an early age due to the high carb, high fat diet of meat and milk. Best teeth I've ever seen in Asia, or outside the First World for that matter. (Must be all the milk.)

18、One of the big reasons why I don't plan on visiting Mongolia is because I hear the guys can get legit rowdy

19、They respect strength and courage above all else, and believe that weakness and cowardice is a cancer which must be eradicated. This is why I do not subscribe to western men marrying these women and bringing them to their homeland. Western men will never understand their mind or value system which is deeply rooted.

20、I hear the dudes are big thuggish and looking to start fights with foreigners.

21、I've also heard that Mongolian guys can be a bit xenophobic towards foreigners. This Mongolian girl I know mentioned that it's because some foreign guys try to grope the girls in public, and this may piss the locals off. Not too sure about this.


阿拉木图报告:

1、I spent most of my time with Dantes and Chase during my time in Almaty, and we all faced varied levels of aggression from local guys during both the day and at night. As mentioned above, they absolutely can't handle foreigners going anywhere near their women and are extremely protective.

2、These girls are not super easy like South East Asia

3、I have never felt more threatened than I did in Almaty. This includes South America (Brazil). The danger from the local men and police is real. These are not the stereotypical scrawny Asians. These guys are built And aggressive. They can and will fight.

4、You will also get evil stares and possibly have to face aggressive behavior from local guys. Things can escalate quickly, there is a violent undercurrent to it.

5、They don't care about the police or the bouncers. They will fight dirty (weapons) and gang up on you.

6、I'm telling you man, it's all that vodka they drink. It's super cheap ($5 USD for a bottle) and they drink it like water

7、I had a great time, but the one night I went out, I would say I had at least 5-6 "incidents" with the local men which easily could have ended with a fight. They really don't like when you take their women. And, some local Brits told me it's far worse in other parts of Kazakhstan as well.

8、The first incident was when I and a Turkish friend who live there were talking to local girls, and he was bumped by a guy walking to the bar. I thought it was just an accident. But then the guy walked past again, and bumped my friend even harder. The bar staff then came by to thank my friend for not fighting. Incidents like this kept happening, as the local guys were serious cock blocks.

9、The men there protect their women and will cockblock you like crazy. I went out clubbing one night and almost got in 5 fights

10、For run-of-the-mill white guys like myself, expect to have incidents if you are going to hit on their women

11、Search other KZ threads and you will find guys talking about native kazaks talking to shit to them, trying to fight the RVFer, or staring at the RVF walking down the street with his Kazakh date.

12、I have been to over 50 counties, many of them would be considered dangerous by some. Kazakhstan is the only place I have felt danger. The local guys and the police will target you.Having a local wing will provide you with some insulation. I would not recommend going alone to this country, especially if you are white and do not speak Russian fluently.

13、I got full on shoved by a Kazakh dude at a nye party because one girl he was macking on ditched him to talk to me

14、I'm totally with you on the issue of the men in the region not being very welcoming,they can be especially unfriendly when drunk,I had a few minor issues in clubs with them

15、(1)there is no foreigner bonus and it's a modern, somewhat rich place

- (2)it's almost impossible to be flirtatious (or to sexualizing a conversation) at these dates, it's like they all have invented Teflon

- (3)the conversations are usually strikingly boring and it's like watching news when she talks

- (4)even if you can make them comfortable nothing will happen besides hand holding on date one

- (5)I tried different venues and tactics but on date one the most you can get is a kiss (that usually gives you an emotional reaction as if you just kicked her in the stomach)

- (6)it's not easy to motivate yourself to go on date 2,3,4,5 after the usual 2 hour boring conversation, a major 'teflon attitude' and the sheer amount of OTHER hot girls you can see everywhere during the day

- (7)you need to plan at least 3 dates, ideally 4-5 to seal the deal (of course there are exceptions)

- (8)many dates are more like interviews/ interrogations and every bit of your story will be analyzed, the sheer amount of mistrust is just insane

16、Opinions differ, but most PUAs here agree that it's difficult to hook up here. The chicks are mostly traditional and will feck if you promise to marry or after marriage.

17、Kazakh dudes are cool but a foreigner picking up their women can piss some off, boxing, MMA, and wrestling are popular here and guys in general like to fight. Girls may not want to leave venues with a foreigner because of this. You need to be situationally aware when out at night and in a place where guys are drunk.


user avatar   paranix 网友的相关建议: 
      

很失望,最后交警竟然没有给留学生道歉。


user avatar   ri-ni-16 网友的相关建议: 
      

因这件事气的肝疼的人

和天天说今生无悔入华夏的人

可能是一批人

每次类似舆论爆发后都群情激愤

然而人是"健忘"的

在而后的某一天

我们又会热情地称颂我们来之不易伟大的


仿佛现实版1984


user avatar   shen-peng-38 网友的相关建议: 
      

我少年时读《笑傲江湖》的时候,曾以为林平之才是真主角。

长大后还是觉得,金庸老儿太坏,只要没有主角光环,就把角色往死里整,林平之一开始,其实是个崇尚侠义、正义感十足的热血青年,之所以后来性情大变、行事极端,那是因为人家好人没好报,遭遇太惨。

当年在福建省、福州府,福威镖局有错吗?林总镖头有错吗?林平之少侠有错吗?人家一家行侠仗义,保一方平安,一点错没有,人在家中坐,祸从天上来。狗日的青城派余沧海,号称是一代宗师,却觊觎人家的绝学秘籍,一点道理不讲,欺负到头上了,甚至还要灭人家满门。

在城外的小酒店,余沧海的儿子余人杰欺男霸女、横行不法,当众调戏岳灵珊假扮的卖酒女,还有法律吗?还有王法吗?当我福州府无人?

这时候,是我们的林平之少侠拍案而起,怒斥淫贼恶徒余人杰:“甚么东西,两个不带眼的狗崽子,却到我们福州府来撒野!”

虽然林少侠武功不行,被恶贼余人杰一顿胖揍,但林少侠性格刚烈、不屈不挠,和恶势力斗争到底,绝不低头,虽然拳脚不敌,落在下风,但从头到尾都没有输了勇气,并且在绝境中,拔出匕首反杀了恶贼。

你要说少年林平之有什么盖世武功,真没有,他爹林总镖头有什么了不起,也没有,行走江湖,全靠关系打得好,三山五岳的朋友给面子。但是林少侠面对恶贼欺凌百姓,路见不平,挥拳相助,以弱敌强,最终手刃强敌,无论什么人,看到这一幕,都该竖起大拇指,夸一声:“林少侠纯爷们,真汉子!”

余人杰为何如此嚣张?还不是仗着他老子余沧海是一代宗师,武功盖世,觑福州府如无人之地,藐福州人如土鸡瓦狗,完全不把福威镖局放在眼里,所以才敢跑到门上来撒野,来挑衅。但他忘了,福州人也是有血气,有烈性的,容不得外来的贼子横行霸道,欺压良善。

林平之的老爹,林总镖头听闻这件事之后,是什么反应?老爷子明白自己几斤几两,也害怕余沧海的武功和手段毒辣,但当青城派杀上门来之后,老爷子却一点都不怪林平之,他高声喝道:“咱们姓林的杀了人便杀了,又怎么样?这种人调戏妇女、横行不法,欺我福州百姓,倘若撞在你爹爹手里,一般的也是杀了。

如果论武功,少年的林平之,福威镖局的林总镖头林正南,在《笑傲江湖》的武林体系中,连个屁都算不上,但要论侠义精神、硬骨头,可以说是一等一的英雄好汉。

要知道,后来福威镖局被青城派以毒辣的手段灭了满门,在他们全家面前,一个一个杀人,林家三口,几乎没有任何反抗的手段,林总镖头夫妇,也落到了余沧海手上,饱受折磨。但林家从头到尾,都没有屈服。

林少侠忍辱负重,背着血海深仇,艰难求生,到了最困窘处,连人家农妇的食物都不肯偷吃,可见他的人品和素质。无论他后来变成什么样子,最初的林平之,无愧于侠义道,是个真英雄。

讲实话,《笑傲江湖》的时代应该是大明,有《大明律》在,这帮匪徒居然敢在福州府横行不法,当众调戏妇女,侮辱百姓,乃至于得寸进尺,当街行凶,杀人害人,灭人满门,整个福州府,居然无人能管。

这福州府的当地执法机关,拿着大明的俸禄,却不作为,是要负责任的,是要向福州人民谢罪的。

大明执法机关不作为,那就是纵然恶人,弱者的生存权就会受到威胁,老百姓就没有办法去保护自己的生命财产安全。冤情无法昭雪,正义无法伸张,只能逼得林少侠好端端一个人,只能走了邪路,变得偏激、狭隘、反社会,用自己的方法复仇。

所以,大明的执法机关,自己要硬,面对不法分子,不管他背景是少林还是武当,是来自扶桑高丽还是海西,只要违法犯罪,破坏治安,那就得依法治罪,你们的飞鱼服和绣春刀不是摆设 。


user avatar   excalibur-11-11 网友的相关建议: 
      

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user avatar   ye-yu-xiao-xiang-mu-xue-qian-han 网友的相关建议: 
      

夜里打桩基的滋味,没试过的大概都不知道。那些劝本来准备离开土木的人不要走的,都应该在零下二十度的晚上打一晚上桩基试一下。

拍的一组落日,说实话,城市里还真见不到这种场景,平原的农村也见不到。



晚上也要施工。

我同事,在我们新建成的工区办公室。

小县城的篮球场,因为是高原的缘故,打几分钟肺里跟着火一样。不过当地人习以为常。

冬天的青海湖我估计大部分人都没见过,冰面上可以跑车。

今年5月初辞职,现在坐在学习java的培训班的教室。

又看到这个问题,心情和原来在工地时候完全不一样,原来在工地看到这种“土木劝退”类的回答,我心里想的是我一定要走。现在看到想的是,幸好我走了。

结合我自己情况谈谈土木转行的看法。

我原来的中铁隧道局的一个子公司,具体是哪个就不说了,项目到现在还欠我两个月工资加上部分报销,怕惹了麻烦钱不好拿回来。

17年毕业,刚到公司去了**,在那儿度过了为期一周的培训,住在星级酒店,公司安排职能部门介绍各个部门的职责,还有类似军训的团建活动以及一个职场老师讲解行为仪表等。这七天可以说是最开心最无忧的七天,认识了很多新朋友,大家都怀揣着对未来的憧憬,内心充实身体轻松。

我运气还是比较好的,第一个项目就是市政,在西宁,是公司为数不多的能挣钱的项目之一,对,现在的建筑行业就是这个行情。因为项目盈利,人员充足,加上第一年是见习,我第一年的生活是比较闲的,甚至可以说是相当舒服的。项目前期已经结束,来到了大干时期,工地上的所有都已经运转正常,加上我又在隧道那边,隧道就是循环工艺,所以我是比较轻松的。一般就是施工队长打电话报检,然后我过去看一下质量,没有问题通知一下混凝土,有问题就盯着整改好再通知混凝土。可能一天的工作时间累计不会超过4个小时。

第一年就这么浑浑噩噩的过去,也是在这一年,我遇到了我女朋友。得益于一个软件吧,在一个陌生的城市,还是在工地,基本不可能在生活中找对象。有了对象就开始思考一下原来不会思考的问题,比如我以后如果在工地一辈子了,那女朋友怎么办,孩子怎么办,那不是必须得要分居两地。而且中间发生了一件事,那时候隧道那边马上要完工了,我们几个同事都在传要把我们隧道这边的部分员工放回家待岗,我就想的更多了,如果是年轻的时候被待岗了也就待岗了,反正一个人吃饱了全家不饿,如果以后结婚了,有了房贷车贷,公司突然通知你待岗,一个月不到2000的收入,又该怎么办?而且公司有很多骚操作,项目部不多,招不到标的情况下,很多老人没项目去就要回家待岗,于此同时,每年招大批的大学生进公司,导致很多员工待岗时间长达一年两年。

大概就是从这个时候(18年8月份左右),我开始思考自己是不是该走了。辞职的种子一旦在心里发芽,早晚要长成参天大树,我开始在贴吧/知乎查找关于土木工程转行的相关内容,无一不是劝退的。甚至知乎有个专门的话题就是土木转行。

或多或少自己下定决心走还是受了点这些劝退的影响,不过我也一直在想这件事儿。当你决心要走的时候,工作就不可能上心了,我开始抱着混一天工资是一天的想法,因为当时手里没钱,我的计划就是辞职了报个班学习计算机,没钱不敢辞,这么大个人了也不能找家里要,就又坚持了一段时间。

18年9月底接到我们部长一电话,通知我被调走了,调到了海拔还要比西宁高1000米的**县,本以为真要去深山老林了,当时还想象了一下没有网吧,没有火锅店的生活,没想到过去了以后感觉还不错,虽然海拔高,但是项目部在一个县城里,基础设施都还可以。然后到了高原项目,工资还挺可以,加上高原补助,一个月能达到10k吧。领导也都不错,尤其是我们的总工,挺照顾我们技术口的兄弟的。

在**县我也犹豫过是不是再挣一年高原补助再辞职,毕竟我知道以我的水平,出来不管干什么都很难在短时间内再拿到上万的工资。后来我想明白了。既然要走,还不如早点走,与其把时间浪费在工地上,我宁愿出来以后多吃点苦,少花点钱。然后果断辞职,在**保了个培训java的机构,如今已经上课一个月了。


说些我对工地以及现在这一行的一个看法吧,以一个工作一年的小技术员的角度看,大佬看到勿喷。

现在的土木早已经过了那个飞速发展的时代了,以我原来的公司为例,18年一整年基本上没有新的项目,然后既有项目也大部分在亏损,很少有我第一个项目那么赚钱,不像是十几年前,随便一个项目都是在盈利的。我们总工说他前两个项目,那时候他还是个技术员,每个分红都在20万以上,十几年前的20万。那个时候的土木就像前两年的计算机,是个所有人都抢着往里挤的行业。现在工程越来越少,人还是那么多甚至更多,利润自然会下降,分红什么的只存在别人嘴里。原来项目多的时候,升职也快,开一个项目可能一个技术员就变成了工程部长,现在人这么多,工程部长都没地方安置,技术员想往上升,最少要三两年。

而且变成工程部长甚至总工了又能怎么样。说白了还是在工地待着,活也没少干,骂也不少挨,除了工资高点,地位甚至还不如一个小监理员。我们总工老婆生孩子的时候,他回家待了7天,我在想要是我女朋友生孩子,我只能陪她七天,我们肯定会离婚。

写了这么多,也不知道有没有人看,如果你还在纠结要不要从施工单位离开,那我劝你趁着年轻早点走,不要老想着眼前的平稳和待遇,多想想以后,你开始犹豫的时候就代表你已经不可能把全部精力都放在工作上了,这只会导致你也没走,也干不好工作。如果你喜欢工地,喜欢施工单位(真有这样的人,我原来一个同事,水平挺高,学历也不低,公司的招标处把他往重庆招,年薪20万还比较安稳,他不愿意去,就喜欢留在工地),那就请努力好好干,土木这一行并不是没有出路。

最后有一句话,不吐不快,监理是真的让人恶心,施工单位恶心,业主也恶心,施工队伍也恶心。就是一群整天想着吃拿卡要的蛀虫。我不是一个冲动的人,有好几次都想拿着钢筋对着监理的帽子来那么两下。


user avatar   leon-86-38-81 网友的相关建议: 
      

夜里打桩基的滋味,没试过的大概都不知道。那些劝本来准备离开土木的人不要走的,都应该在零下二十度的晚上打一晚上桩基试一下。

拍的一组落日,说实话,城市里还真见不到这种场景,平原的农村也见不到。



晚上也要施工。

我同事,在我们新建成的工区办公室。

小县城的篮球场,因为是高原的缘故,打几分钟肺里跟着火一样。不过当地人习以为常。

冬天的青海湖我估计大部分人都没见过,冰面上可以跑车。

今年5月初辞职,现在坐在学习java的培训班的教室。

又看到这个问题,心情和原来在工地时候完全不一样,原来在工地看到这种“土木劝退”类的回答,我心里想的是我一定要走。现在看到想的是,幸好我走了。

结合我自己情况谈谈土木转行的看法。

我原来的中铁隧道局的一个子公司,具体是哪个就不说了,项目到现在还欠我两个月工资加上部分报销,怕惹了麻烦钱不好拿回来。

17年毕业,刚到公司去了**,在那儿度过了为期一周的培训,住在星级酒店,公司安排职能部门介绍各个部门的职责,还有类似军训的团建活动以及一个职场老师讲解行为仪表等。这七天可以说是最开心最无忧的七天,认识了很多新朋友,大家都怀揣着对未来的憧憬,内心充实身体轻松。

我运气还是比较好的,第一个项目就是市政,在西宁,是公司为数不多的能挣钱的项目之一,对,现在的建筑行业就是这个行情。因为项目盈利,人员充足,加上第一年是见习,我第一年的生活是比较闲的,甚至可以说是相当舒服的。项目前期已经结束,来到了大干时期,工地上的所有都已经运转正常,加上我又在隧道那边,隧道就是循环工艺,所以我是比较轻松的。一般就是施工队长打电话报检,然后我过去看一下质量,没有问题通知一下混凝土,有问题就盯着整改好再通知混凝土。可能一天的工作时间累计不会超过4个小时。

第一年就这么浑浑噩噩的过去,也是在这一年,我遇到了我女朋友。得益于一个软件吧,在一个陌生的城市,还是在工地,基本不可能在生活中找对象。有了对象就开始思考一下原来不会思考的问题,比如我以后如果在工地一辈子了,那女朋友怎么办,孩子怎么办,那不是必须得要分居两地。而且中间发生了一件事,那时候隧道那边马上要完工了,我们几个同事都在传要把我们隧道这边的部分员工放回家待岗,我就想的更多了,如果是年轻的时候被待岗了也就待岗了,反正一个人吃饱了全家不饿,如果以后结婚了,有了房贷车贷,公司突然通知你待岗,一个月不到2000的收入,又该怎么办?而且公司有很多骚操作,项目部不多,招不到标的情况下,很多老人没项目去就要回家待岗,于此同时,每年招大批的大学生进公司,导致很多员工待岗时间长达一年两年。

大概就是从这个时候(18年8月份左右),我开始思考自己是不是该走了。辞职的种子一旦在心里发芽,早晚要长成参天大树,我开始在贴吧/知乎查找关于土木工程转行的相关内容,无一不是劝退的。甚至知乎有个专门的话题就是土木转行。

或多或少自己下定决心走还是受了点这些劝退的影响,不过我也一直在想这件事儿。当你决心要走的时候,工作就不可能上心了,我开始抱着混一天工资是一天的想法,因为当时手里没钱,我的计划就是辞职了报个班学习计算机,没钱不敢辞,这么大个人了也不能找家里要,就又坚持了一段时间。

18年9月底接到我们部长一电话,通知我被调走了,调到了海拔还要比西宁高1000米的**县,本以为真要去深山老林了,当时还想象了一下没有网吧,没有火锅店的生活,没想到过去了以后感觉还不错,虽然海拔高,但是项目部在一个县城里,基础设施都还可以。然后到了高原项目,工资还挺可以,加上高原补助,一个月能达到10k吧。领导也都不错,尤其是我们的总工,挺照顾我们技术口的兄弟的。

在**县我也犹豫过是不是再挣一年高原补助再辞职,毕竟我知道以我的水平,出来不管干什么都很难在短时间内再拿到上万的工资。后来我想明白了。既然要走,还不如早点走,与其把时间浪费在工地上,我宁愿出来以后多吃点苦,少花点钱。然后果断辞职,在**保了个培训java的机构,如今已经上课一个月了。


说些我对工地以及现在这一行的一个看法吧,以一个工作一年的小技术员的角度看,大佬看到勿喷。

现在的土木早已经过了那个飞速发展的时代了,以我原来的公司为例,18年一整年基本上没有新的项目,然后既有项目也大部分在亏损,很少有我第一个项目那么赚钱,不像是十几年前,随便一个项目都是在盈利的。我们总工说他前两个项目,那时候他还是个技术员,每个分红都在20万以上,十几年前的20万。那个时候的土木就像前两年的计算机,是个所有人都抢着往里挤的行业。现在工程越来越少,人还是那么多甚至更多,利润自然会下降,分红什么的只存在别人嘴里。原来项目多的时候,升职也快,开一个项目可能一个技术员就变成了工程部长,现在人这么多,工程部长都没地方安置,技术员想往上升,最少要三两年。

而且变成工程部长甚至总工了又能怎么样。说白了还是在工地待着,活也没少干,骂也不少挨,除了工资高点,地位甚至还不如一个小监理员。我们总工老婆生孩子的时候,他回家待了7天,我在想要是我女朋友生孩子,我只能陪她七天,我们肯定会离婚。

写了这么多,也不知道有没有人看,如果你还在纠结要不要从施工单位离开,那我劝你趁着年轻早点走,不要老想着眼前的平稳和待遇,多想想以后,你开始犹豫的时候就代表你已经不可能把全部精力都放在工作上了,这只会导致你也没走,也干不好工作。如果你喜欢工地,喜欢施工单位(真有这样的人,我原来一个同事,水平挺高,学历也不低,公司的招标处把他往重庆招,年薪20万还比较安稳,他不愿意去,就喜欢留在工地),那就请努力好好干,土木这一行并不是没有出路。

最后有一句话,不吐不快,监理是真的让人恶心,施工单位恶心,业主也恶心,施工队伍也恶心。就是一群整天想着吃拿卡要的蛀虫。我不是一个冲动的人,有好几次都想拿着钢筋对着监理的帽子来那么两下。


user avatar   tian-xing-jian-97-25 网友的相关建议: 
      

那么,唐僧在花果山念一段紧箍咒,就会当上猴王吗?

如来把孙悟空压在五行山下,花果山的猴子会认为如来是猴王吗?

不扎根基层,群众是不会认可的!


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