父母把我前途毁了我该怎么办？ 第2页

你好小伙子。

这是一个严肃的问题。因此，对不起，我必须用母语回答。为了说清楚，我会尽可能简单地使用这个语言，并且我用我的一点点中文，来做一个翻译，就是你现在读到的这个。

我是美国人。我也信仰民主，而且我作为一个青少年的时候也很叛逆。但是我恐怕完全不能接受你错误的看法。

即使你的父母没有给你一个美好的生活，你至少应该尊重他们。你的现状并非完全由他们造成 - 据我所知，有许多成功的中国人在与你一样的环境中长大，并最终改变了他们的生活。

你现在的情况完全是因为你没有达到预期，而且你是怨恨。由于出生环境的不好，你放弃了。无意冒犯，但是像你这样的人肯定会成为一个loser。是你自己让自己成了一个失败者。考虑到你的现状，你不可能在美国或日本生存。你甚至不能独立地在自己的祖国生活。

此外，你真的认为美国和日本是你想象中的天堂吗？至少美国不是。至于日本，哈哈哈。我刚才提到我相信民主 - 就像你一样 - 但你所说的那种民主，遗憾的是，你永远无法在美国找到它，找遍世界也没有！我希望你能够理解，民主的核心是容忍，而不是放纵。一个甚至不能接受自己父母的人没有资格获得民主。

你想出国的唯一原因是因为美国和日本在某些方面确实比中国好，你的父母现在也不能够为这个付钱。所以，你可以继续推卸你对父母的责任，继续你的说谎：一切都是父母错了，他们没有送我进好小学，没有保护我，没有让我进入中学，没有给我一个美好的生活，现在，我没有钱去国外 - 这只是一够谎言造成的愚蠢。在不久的将来，你也可能因为不能够买汽车，房子等而责怪你的父母。

以上所有，总而言之，1.你现在从头到脚都是一个失败者。这与你的父母无关。这只是你子女不上进。你想要的不是民主，只是为所欲为。要出国，只是为了推卸责任，继续一直欺骗。

那么你现在应该做些什么呢？ 1.回到学校，计算机科学可以帮助你获得好生活。 2.要求你的父母少量的钱，去书店，买书。去你所在城市最大的图书馆。请你阅读很多。无数人的证明，让自己更好的最好方式是阅读。 3.尊重你的父母，不要成为一直依靠父母的人。 4，如果你真的想出国，试着上大学，也许还有机会。

这就是我能想到要告诉你的全部内容。

以下是原文，如果我的中文不好进而你看不懂，希望原文能帮助你。

Hello lad.

This is a serious problem. Therefore, I'm sorry but I have to answer it in my mother language. In order to make it clear, I will use the words and phrases as easy as possible, and I would try my best to make a translated version in Chinese.

I am an American. I do believe in democracy you said, and I have experienced some years of rebellion as a teenager. But unfortunately, I'm afraid I can't accept your biased statement at all.

Even if your parents didn't give you a good life, you should at least respect them. Your status quo is not entirely caused by them - as far as I know, there are many successful Chinese people that have grown up in exactly the same environment as you did, and have finally changed their lives.

Your current situation is entirely because you don't live up to expectations, and you are resentful. Because of the curse of the birth environment, you give up. I don't mean to be rude, but people like you will inevitably fail. It is you yourself that had made yourself a loser. Considering your status quo, it is impossible for you to survive in the US and/or in Japan. You can not even lead a good life in your motherland independently.

Besides, do you really think that the US and Japan are the paradise in your imagination? At least the United States is not. As for Japan, LOL. I just mentioned that I believe in democracy - just like you - but the kind of democracy you said, regretfully, you can never find it in America, nor anywhere on our lovely earth! I hope that you can understand that the core of democracy is tolerance, not indulgence. A person who cannot even tolerate his own parents is not eligible for democracy.

The only reason why you want to go abroad is because the US and Japan are indeed better than China in some respects, and your parents are unable to pay for this right now. So, you can continue to shirk your responsibilities to your parents and go on with your lies: everything is parents' mistakes, they didn't send me to an elite primary school, didn't protect me from the bullying, didn't let me enter middle school, didn't give me a good life, and now, there is no money for me to go abroad - this is just a triple sized stupid composed of one hundred lies. In the near future, you may also blame your parents for their not buying a car, a house, etc.

All of the above, summed up in a few sentencesce, that is, 1. You are now a loser from head to toe. 2. This has nothing to do with your parents. It's just your unmotivating. 3. What you want is not democracy at all, but doing whatever you want with arbitration. 4. The reason why I want to go abroad is just to shirk your responsibility and continue the lie that has always been deceiving yourself.

So what you should do now? 1. Go back to school, computer science, can help you get a fairly good life. 2. Ask your parents for a small amount of money to go to the book shop, to buy books. Go to your city's largest library. Please read more. Countless people's proven, the best way of self-improvement is to read. 3. Respect your parents, do not be a parasite. 4, if you really want to go abroad, try to take a college college, perhaps there are opportunities.

That's all I could think of to tell you.