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       约会弓虽姦特别常出现在大学校园，有时是在有酒类或是其他约会弓虽姦药物的场合，因此也是药物性侵（drug-facilitated sexual assault，DFSA）。 约会弓虽姦的加害者也可能是互联网的网友。 在20世纪未，世界上许多地区对弓虽姦的定义都已变成是在一个人在没有取得他人立刻同意的情形下，就和此人发生X行为（包括口/肛），此情形下的X行为是违法的，就算两人之前认识，甚至是之前曾经（在双方同意的情形下）发生性行为也不例外。 许多社会会依照弓虽姦者及受害者之间的关系来决定弓虽姦的严重性。“相较于被认识的人性侵犯，被陌生人性侵犯比较算是‘真正的弓虽姦’”。 因为这种文化认知，约会弓虽姦认为没有被陌生人弓虽姦来的严重，其中也因为弓虽姦者及受害者之间的关系，尤其在他们曾经是性伴侣，或是近期仍是性伴侣的情形时更为明显。在校园中的约会弓虽姦可能有不同的意义，此处的约会可能会是派对，而弓虽姦者及其男性友人刻意的给女性喝酒或是使用药物，使其失去反抗能力，因此此情形的约会弓虽姦有集体性的参与。 英文 date rape 最早是出现在美国作家 Susan Brownmiller 在1975年的书《 违背意愿：男人、女人及弓虽姦》（Against Our Will: Men, Women, and Rape）。 不过最早使用应该是美籍律师 Ann Olivarius 在耶鲁大学一系列的公开课中提到，她在说明当她是大学生时向耶鲁大学X察部门说明一名女性被杀的情形。 1980年时在《小姐杂志》（Mademoiselle) 中出现此一词语，1982年有篇文章是《约会弓虽姦：校园流行病》（Date Rape: A Campus Epidemic?），1984年英国小说家马丁·艾米斯在其小说 《金钱:绝笔》（Money: A Suicide Note）中也使用此词语。 Mary Koss 是早期的研究者之一，她在1987年进行了第一次全国性的调查，针对二十五所学校的7000名学生进行问卷，date rape 词语的使用也归功于她的研究。     

       不过也有些有关约会弓虽姦的争议，有些人认为大家过分的关注此问题，而且大部分约会弓虽姦的“受害人”其实愿意进行性行为，并且有表示同意。也有些人认为约会弓虽姦被严重低估了，所有声称被约会弓虽姦的受害人都是在无意愿下进行性行为的受害者。 熟人弓虽姦的范围较广，两人的关系可能是雇主及员工、房东及房客、服务提供者及消费者、司机及乘客，也有可能是邻居或是亲属。 The Encyclopedia of Murder and Violent Crime 定义约会弓虽姦是："rape occurring during a prearranged social engagement"。  美国法律理论家理查德·A·波斯纳在1992年出版的《性与理性》（Sex and Reason）中， 提到对约会弓虽姦的关注在升级，也代表美国社会女性地位的改变，他提到约会是现代社会中的一个特征，若社会的性道德是在放纵及抑制当中变化的话，可预期社会上会出现约会弓虽姦的情形。 2013年的文章 Navigating Consent: Debunking the Gray Area Myth 指出大众已错误的将约会视为是“会永久性同意发生性行为”。   发生率 大部分的相关研究是美国的案例。 粗略地说，每五个青少女中就有一人是约会弓虽姦的受害者。 美国的发生率约在15%至20%之间，不同的研究有些不一致。有个1987年的早期研究指出，每四名中就有一名是受害者，其中有84%是被认识的人弓虽姦。 不过，在被性侵且符合法律上弓虽姦定义的，只有27%认为她们是受害者，而且只有5%有针对弓虽姦报警。有个美国大学校园内的研究发现，有13%的熟人弓虽姦，以及35%的熟人弓虽姦未遂是在约会中发生的，另一个研究发现女性弓虽姦受害者中，有22%之前就已被现任或前任的男友或是女友弓虽姦，另外20%是被配偶或前夫。 2007年的研究发现不是西班牙裔的非裔学生最容易成为约会弓虽姦的受害者，接着是西班牙裔，再其次是非西班牙裔的白人学生 欧洲的发生率比美国要低。 日本有报案的发生率比美国要少很多。 德国社会及犯罪学家 Joachim Kersten 在1993年的论文提到，日本发生率比美国低的原因是因为日本文化较不强调浪漫的爱情及约会，而且日本年轻人的人身隐私也比美国年轻人要少。 美国女作家Veronica Chambers在2007出版的 Kickboxing Geishas: How Modern Japanese Women Are Changing Their Nation 中问到，日本报案的比例低，有可能因为大众不了解这回事就是弓虽姦。日本女作家 Masaki Matsuda 在 2011年的 Transforming Japan: How Feminism and Diversity Are Making a Difference 中提到，约会弓虽姦开始成为日本大学及高中的问题，而且比例越来越高。 2007年韩国对大学生的研究发现，大家很少将约会弓虽姦视为是弓虽姦，而约会的强迫性行为不认为是精神受创，也不知道是犯罪。 越南的约会弓虽姦案例有被低估。 2012年，印度 98%报警的案子是由熟人犯下。  虽然一般认为约会弓虽姦是有伤害性、破坏性、会改变一生的经验，Mufson 和 Kranz 的研究发现缺乏支持是受害人无法复原的一个重要因素。 她们会拒绝透露有关加害者的资讯，特别是她们曾经历过约会弓虽姦或熟人弓虽姦，且感受羞辱和自责的情绪。 不过有些情境是让受害人可以求助，并且让大家知道加害者的资讯。 可能会因为希望不要再有其他人受害，而愿意揭露加害者的资讯，也就是将事情说出来。另外，有关受害人身边人们的关切也可能让加害者自愿认罪，或是加害者因为喝酒而脱抑制说出实情。  受害人已认识一段时间，认为可以信任的人，更容易犯下弓虽姦行为。不过有些人由于其认知，他们会有偏见，对约会弓虽姦、受害人及加害者有刻板印象，常常会为弓虽姦合理化，责骂受害人特别是女性受害者，认为是她们的挑逗性服装或是曾有浪漫关系才会造成弓虽姦的结果。 另一个问题是受害人和加害者之间的关系。 两人之间的关系若越亲密，越难以证明这是严重的性侵犯事件，反而被认为原来就是双方同意进行的性行为。     

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